I joined Facebook in 2008 (Thanks to timeline!). For the past four years,
I have seen the changes and upgrades. Users evolve as FB evolves. From these, I like and
dislike some things about Facebook.
I like FB because ..
.. there is opportunity to
connect to families and friends abroad and to those who you cannot see all the
time. My siblings are OFWs and get to follow
my son’s developments and activities through the pictures I post. I also took advantage of FB to reconnect to family members that are not so close. Chatting with them and through my and their updates make me feel closer to them in some ways.
.. you get the chance to greet
friends during important occasions without spending much for phone calls. Though it would be more personal if you greet them personally.
.. you get the chance to know the
news. Many users are very prompt in
posting pictures or updates when there are storms, no classes announcement, and
the like and even news of mall sales.
.. you get to know the latest
trends for gadgets and fashion.
.. you get to learn new travel
destinations and tips.
.. you get a chance to be an entrepreneur. You can sell some items to friends or
announce that you are selling some items.
I dislike FB because ..
.. there are some users are never
invisible. They are those who keep on
checking in wherever they go even when they are just buying at a fast food or
waiting for a shuttle to go home. For
me, why are they making a big deal out of it when nothing is happening uniquely
on their activities?
.. there are users who never
chooses pictures to post. One should
evaluate if photos to post are pleasing to the eyes of the viewers. Imagine yourself as the viewer; of course you
don’t want to see blurred pictures or pictures that have not been rotated
properly. I myself do not want to see
pictures of gallstones after a cholecystectomy procedure or pictures while one
is giving birth normally with all the blood and almost showing sensitive parts.
.. it’s becoming a venue to show
off what you have. Some things should
not be discussed online most especially its money matters. For me, users should not talk about how much is
his new mobile phone or house online.
.. some uses FB to outburst their
emotions. There are times that one has
conflicts with friends, at work or within the family and uses FB to release
what they feel or make “parinig” to other persons. For me, issues and differences should be talked
about outside FB, better if conducted and resolved in a meeting.
Though there are things I dislike
about Facebook, I still continue to use it.
I am taking the advantages of it and I make myself a responsible user.